Oral history interview with Temilade Kosoko

Oral history interview with Temilade Kosoko
Trigger Warning
Sexual abuse
Temilade Kosoko
Date Created
12 October 2019
Recorded At
Abeokuta, Ogun, Nigeria
Performer’s experience
Tragedy in reality
Role preparation
Contemporary society
The Gods are Not to Blame
Directorial approach
Contemporary tragedy
Dramatising tragedy
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Temilade Kosoko

Olalekan Balogun


Saturday 12 October 2019

Transcribed by Jayne Batzofin

Balogun Okay, good afternoon.

Kosoko Good afternoon sir.

Balogun Can you introduce yourself?

Kosoko Okay, my name is Temilade Kosoko and I'm a thespian and professional actress.

Balogun Okay, yeah umm, I have seen you in a couple of productions. One of the things I've noticed is that, in most plays that you are doing you've always played some very significant roles. Sometimes the lead roles which suggest that you are obviously a very strong and talented actress. Now can you share some of the experiences of the plays that you've done as a kind of a preamble to what we are going to be discussing today.

Kosoko Okay, let me list some of the plays first. We have Scar, we have A Little more Purple, Ade Ire, Ojuola, Oya, The Banter, Our Son the Minister, even the last University of Lagos Convocation play, The Gods are not to blame.

Balogun Okay, good. Most of these plays that you mentioned, maybe one or two, just give us a background into the experience, some kind of a synopsis and later we talk about what connects them in terms of tragedy.

Kosoko Okay, Scar is basically a play about young girls that were physically, sexually, emotionally abused. So it's basically just them telling their stories to people, making them see that, okay these things still happen outside. So, speaking of Oya, the story is not like, it's real or something but it's like a sociological play but using the Gods to represent things are still happen in our society. It's about Ogun and Sango fighting over Oya. Oya being Ogun's wife, but Ogun is always at the battle front, he never had time for his wife. Eventually Sango comes for her and in the end she agrees to be with Sango.

Balogun Okay, I said that earlier, that most of these plays are tragedies in some way. From your experience of being involved in most of these plays how would you describe tragedy to people, how would you explain it, in your own words, what is tragedy?

Kosoko In my words, tragedy is pain. Pain that you either inflict by yourself or someone else inflicts on you. So using Scar as an example, I played the role of Eno. Eno is a young girl that umm… she lost her parents, her uncle sent her out of the house and she met a woman on the streets, who took her in She took her in and all of a sudden she's talking about a particular chief. She takes the young girl to the chief, but Eno being a girl that grew up in the streets, she is smart, she found her way out. Like she stabs the chief and all of that. These things still happen, like it's everywhere. We have young girls outside, they don't have anywhere to stay and then these older women that are supposed to be like helpers to them, see it as an opportunity to use them to make money.

Balogun mmm. So in a way Scar… Scar really was a kind of a play that addresses the you know-

Kosoko Issues about young-

Balogun - female prostitution, child trafficking-

Kosoko - child trafficking-

Balogun - and all of that.

Kosoko Not just-

Balogun So you talk about tragedy being the infliction of pain. So, are you saying that a play like that, apart from the fact that it reflects a society of us, you think it gives us another idea about what it means for a situation to be tragic?

Kosoko Yes because looking at the story of Eno for example, the pain was not just inflicted by her. It started right from her family, it still happened, I don't know why-

Balogun What do you mean that it started from her family?

Kosoko Her family, yes, cause her uncle who through her out of the house is supposed to be an important member of her family. She lost her parents, and then in most Igbo communities, even now, once you don't have parents your family just wants to take over your parent's properties but they don't care whatever happens to you.

Balogun mmm. So you are saying that, that kind of a tragedy apart from the fact that it is dramatised onstage in a play like Scar, it reflects some of the inner workings, the relationship that is still going on among the people.

Kosoko Yes, yes.

Balogun Okay now, let's relate to, when you were staging that play, what was the process, what was it like? You're given that role, what was it, give us a bit into the preparation for that kind of a tragedy.

Kosoko Okay, when I was given the role, I would say it wasn't too difficult for me to present myself as Eno because I'm a girl and according to what I say…say 95% of girls in this world have been abused in one way or the other. It doesn't have to be physically, it could be emotionally, it could be psychologically. Even men working on the road, where guys talk to us alone, it's an abuse.

Balogun Okay so you're saying most of the time, girls, young girls, have to endure verbal abuse-

Kosoko yes, verbal abuse.

Balogun - verbal abuse and this and that.

Kosoko Yes a lot of it. So I read Eno's line, I tried to put myself in her shoes 'cause bad situations- okay let me give you an instance of when I was in a bus one day and there was a woman carrying a small baby and she had a little girl of about 5 years. She could not carry the both of them at the same time. She told the man sitting beside her to carry the child for her. All of a sudden the girl started acting like something was wrong. Then the mother was smart enough to notice that something was wrong with her daughter, she didn't let the guy know that she wanted to take the baby away. She just took her and immediately everybody saw that the guy's zip was already down. He was already touching the girl, thinking that no other person would have- another problem was that people saw him but they didn't-do anything- it's not my business.

Balogun So he just, in a public bus, you even had a paedophile have the confidence to even try to defile a young girl?

Kosoko A very very young girl, not just-

Balogun Okay, if you look at it, if you look at that situation, you are saying that, it was one of the tragic experiences that you had that helps you to prepare for the role. What does that particular incident say about the kind of society that we are in?

Kosoko I think first of all, similar to me, justice is not really done to those who do these things.

Balogun mmm.

Kosoko 'Cause if literally they punish them if you ask me, I will say sexual abuse is punishable by death and death alone. Not, they will take them to prison and they will come out eventually and they will still continue what they were doing. 'Cause some of them, I don't see these prisons as anything, anymore. And it's not even just about the girl child, we have older ladies abusing younger boys.

Balogun mmm. Okay so it's a two way thing.

Kosoko It is.

Balogun While we know that we have paedophiles, we also have some elderly women-

Kosoko Yes, yes.

Balogun - also taking advantage of young boys.

Kosoko 'Cause even when we staged Scar, we made it mixed-gender, mixed-culture, we made it mixed gender.

Balogun Okay.

Kosoko There's another role of Ofure.

Balogun Okay.

Kosoko Ofure is a girl, her own father was the one giving her-

Balogun Who was abusing her?

Kosoko Yes. Giving her cocaine and the rest. To give to someone else.

Balogun Oh okay, the father of Ofure actually turned her into a courier.

Kosoko Yes, yes.

Balogun Wow, that's interesting.

Kosoko So we made Ofure a guy, the one we staged at Terra Kulture. So it's not just the female child, it's both ways.

Balogun So if you look at this incident that you just mentioned now, two now. You have a young boy whose father was- who was turned into a… you know… a kind of a cocaine courier, drug addict. And we have a paedophile who was trying to abuse a young girl, right in the public bus. If you sum up these things together, these two incidents, these tragic incidents, how then can you begin to conceptualise tragedy even outside of the stage performance?

Kosoko Well left to me, I feel tragedy is in a way accepted in this country.

Balogun Why do you say that?

Kosoko Because like I said earlier, justice is not being allowed to prevail. Like we see a lot of things and we just move our eyes.

Balogun mmm.

Kosoko Like I said, some people, it was after the mother of the girl removed her daughter, people in the bus were saying "ah, oh we saw him, we just didn't want to…" So you saw him but you didn't want to talk? Because you don't want to get into trouble.

Balogun So people are actually even complicit in tragedy, with their silence.

Kosoko Yes, it's because they don't want to get into trouble-

Balogun So silence is some kind of endorsement so to speak.

Kosoko yeah, yeah.

Balogun And, what does that say about our society then? Or the societies in which some of these things happen?

Kosoko Well, I would say that… (sighs) I don't know.

Balogun So you think the kind of tragedy that happens in the outside world is even more (chortles), how do we say it…

Kosoko Tragic.

Balogun - more tragic. The tragedy that happens (chortles) is more tragic than what is dramatised onstage.

Kosoko Sure, definitively.

Balogun Okay now relate that to The Gods are Not to Blame that you mentioned, which is actually one of the most, one of the main concerns of this interview. The Gods are Not to Blame, you know this story very well. You've been involved in a number of plays before that, tell us your experience in The Gods are Not to Blame.

Kosoko Okay, in The Gods are Not to Blame I acted as a chief. And to me, the play is, okay let's put it this way, starting from Odewale, when Odewale was born. I don't know but, up until now we still have people who believe in- I'm not trying to insult their Gods...but whatever it is, I don't know, people believe so much in their Gods that we forget that, there are some things that we should think of, humanism and the rest.

Balogun Okay, so you feel that by your participation in the play, allowed you to form the opinion that even now people believe so much in supernatural to the extent that-

Kosoko Yes.

Balogun - what they are supposed to do to address certain things by themselves, they leave to the Gods.

Kosoko Yes.

Balogun You think that's tragic?

Kosoko To me. 'Cause it's not just the traditional Gods, even the God that we worship.

Balogun In terms of?

Kosoko In terms of the churches, let take churches for example.

Balogun Okay, okay.

Kosoko The kind of-

Balogun And Islam as well

Kosoko Yes, the kind of rules that they have. I'm not trying to pinpoint any church, but we have churches that say you can't take blood transfusion, 'cause it's a sin- who is mixing… Someone is dying and then you just believe it's not done…

Balogun That it's a sin to take blood transfusion-

Kosoko Blood transfusion, yes.

Balogun And then for that person, who is dying, who maybe had an accident or-

Kosoko The person would-

Balogun - who needed blood-

Kosoko Would not take it-

Balogun - would not take it.

Kosoko - because it's a sin and the person would rather die. So who are we to blame in that situation?

Balogun mmm. So you think sometimes religion also aids the kind of situation-

Kosoko Yes.

Balogun - that we consider to be tragedy in the society.

Kosoko Yeah because some people…we have them…something will go wrong and then the first person they will go to is the pastor, instead of the hospital.

Balogun mmm.

Kosoko People now believe pastor prayer is more useful, they should rather take drips, injections and rest.

Balogun Yeah, situations requiring medical attention-

Kosoko Yes.

Balogun - they take to the church.

Kosoko Church.

Balogun Okay. Now let's go back to The Gods are Not to Blame. You said you played the role of a chief.

Kosoko Yes.

Balogun What was it like putting the play together? Tell us a bit about the experience in terms of the rehearsal, in terms of the directorial approach of the director and all of those staging choices that were made.

Kosoko Okay first of all The Gods are Not to Blame as adapted by Lekan Balogun…is something that I'm sure nobody saw coming. Even when we were in the play, at some point I was confused I did know where play was going. 'Cause the director wanted to make it the unusual umm… The Gods are Not to Blame. Because everyone knows the story. So we had about 11 chiefs, which is not in the play normally.

Balogun As opposed to four?

Kosoko It's supposed to be four, yes. So umm… being in the play was really tasking especially for me as the chief, 'cause I didn't really have lines and I had to be in the play for every second so…

Balogun So how did you manage that? Your presence was meant to add to the- even in spite of not having lines to deliver in the play but you were onstage. How were you able to manage this process? And you are onstage for almost 70% of the time, so how did you cope with that?

Kosoko Well, like-

Balogun Considering that in other plays, you are either the lead role, you are either the supporting, the really supporting role and usually really significant. And then this role you are talking about in The Gods are Not to Blame is important but it doesn't have a line. How did you cope with that?

Kosoko First of all, like I said, I'm a professional actress. Basically it's- all us do it, my facial expressions, like for every second I put myself in the play, 'cause at some point Odewale's line was really long and I want to get out of character but I still had to come back to being the chief. Learning some things about the Benin, because I play the Benin chief.

Balogun mmm.

Kosoko I learnt some things, some accents, some lines I could just put in between every line Odewale says.

Balogun Okay now let's look at that play now in relation to what you talked about heavy reliance on the supernatural now in the modern times, you know. People getting more religious than necessary. Now let's look at it. To what extent can you say that The Gods are Not to Blame that was done reflect the society that we live in. Apart from those two examples that you gave previously.

Kosoko Okay although The Gods are Not to Blame is like, is ancient it was set in the ancient times but we understand that they only believe in their God. But now we are in a civilised world, at least we are better than we were before. But it's funny how until today, some people still believe so much in whatever it is that they believe in and whatever it is I feel is right-

Balogun Destiny kind of?

Kosoko - destiny for an example so…

Balogun Okay so let's now talk about Once upon an Elephant where you were also, you played a major role of a woman who was forcefully taken from her betrothed husband and who also secretly now goes behind, continued the relationship then gets pregnant and was trapped between having to publically disclose the man that's responsible for the pregnancy at the risk of her own life, since she is now married to a tyrant, the King. How were you able to, you know, play this role? And the process of putting yourself in the mood to play the role, you know, for that tragic play?

Kosoko Okay. Umm the role, I played the role of Omoyeni, who was married to Ajanaku, the tyrant.

Balogun mmm.

Kosoko I was married to Ajanaku, the tyrant as the King. So, let me first relate the story, you just narrated story, to our present society. A lot of girls, they are still forced to marry people they don't want to be with.

Balogun mmm.

Kosoko Just because they have an upper hand. That the people they are getting married to have an upper hand. And it still happens in the Northern society.

Balogun The Northern part of Nigeria?

Kosoko Yes. Like they make young girls, really young girls, get married to older men. That's you say because of money. But in the case of Once upon an Elephant Omoyeni is not a young girl but she was made to marry the King because he had an upper hand and because he wanted to marry her forcefully. So, me putting myself in that character was, it took a lot of practice because at some point I didn't really understand the character, it took a lot of reading of the script over and over again. But in the end I was able to put it together, by understanding the script.

Balogun Okay so now how would you consider the kind of tragedy that is dramatised in Once upon an Elephant to Ola Rotimi's The Gods are Not to Blame?

Kosoko (Sighs)How do I explain that? Okay… for Once upon an Elephant… (very softly) I don't know.

Balogun Okay, thank you very much Temi Kosoko for granting this interview. Thank you very much

Kosoko Yes sir, thank you sir.

Balogun turns off the audio recorder